You know? Everyone assumes that the positive stuff I post is because I lived some kind of gifted life. I haven't done anything hard or felt the pain of 'waves of badness'. The badness in My Life started when I was 6 years old. And continues still.
I won't go into the details because it's My Life. And there's too much badness already out there. I don't write drama porn.
You completely missed the point of the chrysallis reference. You don't hold on to 'bad feelings' you allow Life to change you into who you are meant to be.
Everyone's life is shit show. Everyone bears crosses. It's up to you to decide if you're a victim or a survivor. Do you keep crawling around or do you transform and fly?
To the Humans whose badness 'comes in waves' - buck up. You are not special. What you're experiencing is LIFE. Change is the only constant.
Everyone decides what the story is they tell themselves. My Life is much better because I told myself I could fly.