When my marriage ended - I instinctively started taking salt water soaks - lighting a candle and ending by falling asleep in peace in the tub. Later, a witch friend of mine explained that what I was doing was a cleansing ritual. I found as time went on - I no longer fell asleep in the tub. I wasn't as emotionally exhausted by the end of the day. I had a new beginning. Thanks for sharing your story. <3