When I used to date - I occasionally ventured on-line. Until I figured out that most of men responding to my profile found the most attractive thing about me the RN after my name. I learned men with 'free time to travel' was code for disabled. My point here isn't about a man's physical abilities - it's about the underhanded way some of them behaved. One thing you left out - older women with caregiving skills and a stable bank account like authenticity much better than the chase me till you catch me game that is modern dating. Signed: Retired Nurse with a purse ;)