The stories are good — but like any research, the time devoted to getting them can be tedious, horrific, and annoying. LOL. I spent about 4 years off and on in and out of the dating pool. I managed one relationship for about 9 months with a very nice man but in the end I’m just happier on my own. (If you read the unedited version of the story — he was the ‘petter’). My advise, don’t do it. If The Universe plops someone interesting into your life, then by all means have a good time. But otherwise — Let the dating chaos roll around outside your sphere of engagement.