Thank you for that. The point is — women do these mental contortions — to survive and rationalize what just happened. A few people closest to me at the time helped me in a positive way get sorted out. A therapist and a psychic too.
Once other women hear — find out — they start telling you their stories. That’s when you realize — you aren’t alone. That’s the point in time #metoo was no surprise to any woman. We had always been there for each other — a silent army of watchers — holding out arms to brace the fall of the next sister.
You do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
In a perfect world — even married women wouldn’t be having sex they didn’t want. :)