Respectfully - and as kindly as I can say this Ms. Cook. Dick Millet is a good friend of mine. And an even better Human. And you are completely out of line. It takes little effort to be kind in this world - why choose to be cruel?
I sincerely hope that you find healing for the hurt you have which causes you to lash out at a complete stranger.
May you count yourself as blessed to have as many friends as my friend Dick.
Because it's got nothing to do with your name and everything to do with your character.