I’m sure it will not shock you to know — when I was a child also being raised in the Catholic Church — it completely annoyed the crap out of me that I could not become an alter server. And so at the tender age of 6 — a feminist was born. Both my daughters became alter servers decades later and my heart sang with joy each time they were on the alter. During mass. Assisting a priest. In the Catholic Church. With naked heads. So yeah — miracles come in all shapes & sizes my friend. :)