I'm not surprised. I think there are a lot of "less than great" dads out there. It's especially hard at Father's Day & other events to hear the glory of good fathers celebrated. And celebrate them we should - don't get me wrong. It's just that not everyone has That Dad. It seems to me though - that your wife found a man who could be That Dad to her children and help her raise them into successful & productive Humans. And that is no small feat.
Hold her close. She deserves every ounce of your kindness. <3
Thank you for taking the time to read & share your wive's journey. We write to find kindred spirits - others who will nod & say - you are not alone on your journey. Please let your wife know how much I appreciate hearing her story & feel free to share mine. Sometimes - not always - but sometimes, it helps.