I had a phantom for decades. In the end — he turned out to be a bullet that missed me — even for all my romanticizing of who he really wasn’t. But as you said — he came in damn handy when I needed that emotional out. Your insights are brillant. Thank you for sharing them so profoundly and concisely.

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