I found this to be true in my dating experiences. Some men wanted their names to always be at the top of my 'List'. Even above my own! NOPE! I have seven family members in my family - the family that I BUILT. And my name has finally made it to that list after decade of self-denial. So if he's lucky - the highest spot any man could ever hope for is slot #9. Lucky for me I found someone happy enough to hang out there. I come in around #11 on his & I'm perfectly ok with that. Thanks for this great article!