I am a woman firmly entrenched in Team Roz. However, having a husband is not the same as having rich friendships. I may live alone, but I am far from socially isolated. As you pointed out so beautifully - it's connection that helps us maintain our physical & mental health. I'm a busy lady & the friendships I have are treasured. Having said that - I was married for 32 years. Being married is not something I ever need to do again. I know some folks need the connection of a roommate or partner. I'm not in that group & for me it's comparing apples to oranges. I've got heaps of apples - but oranges don't agree with me. (And that's a true statement on both the literal & metaphorical levels).