Exactly. My marriage was a chapter - albeit a very long chapter - of my life. I had a husband and make no mistake, he's a good man. But the marriage didn't survive all the assaults thrown against it. However, I've been there done that. I only ever needed one husband in this lifetime. And I had him. There's no replacing him. And as you said - the freedom to be myself is a very attractive alternative. It is fun getting to know yourself & sort out who you are. Thank you for your kindness, support, & friendship, Lee. If it makes you feel any better - I'm not so fond of the word divorcee either. I'm just Ann. :)