Another critical question to ask: Is this boyfriend in fact heterosexual? Because when I first read the title of your piece without realizing you wrote it — I thought to myself — Girlfriend take a number — and get a vibrator. Then I saw your name and changed my thinking completely!

Poor dude! Why I assumed men didn’t also face this issue is my bias coming out. Because selfishness crosses ALL other genres of our species.

Obviously — I have more work to do on myself. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. Back to my meditation cushion for some more consciousness awakening! ❤

Self discovery in progress, stay tuned

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