😂 An ex-boyfriend once bought me a pair of Ray-bans. Certainly way more than I’d ever waste on sunglasses. He said to me - “Maybe if you had a more expensive pair - you’d take better care of them.” We parted company soon thereafter. I also had a man I was seeing tearfully plead with me to never ride my motorcycle again. He got the boot that very day. Even my kids were proud of me when I got my motorcycle license - in a “Isn’t she awesome & I hope to God she doesn’t hurt herself “ sort of way.